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Monday 22 August 2016

Baby Fairs every month?! My first bulk purchase for Baby

After attending my first baby fair last month at Mid Valley Exhibition Centre, I must say it was an exciting and eye-opening experience, yet a rather confusing and exhausting affair.

I had been present to attend the fair at 8.30am on Thursday, 28 July 2016, in hopes of avoiding the expected crowd on Fridays and weekends. In addition, early bird promotions were available for early shoppers who registered early starting at 9.00am each day, even though the event officially starts at 10.00am. Here were my coupons I managed to obtain for being an early shopper^^~


  


To my surprise, there were already at least 50 early shoppers present queueing up when I arrived, and as time went on, the shopper crowd swelled easily to at least 300 pax by 10.00am. This excluded the event staffs that were also present to set up their booths for this event.

Queue at 8.30am

Queue by 9.45 am
The organisers for the 12th TCE Baby Expo managed to keep the crowd under better control than the previous years (as commented by other early mom shoppers present), but once the shutters were lifted, the shoving and pushing started, regardless whether you were a pregnant mom, or a mom with a baby/ toddler in a stroller. Thankfully, many other parents that were already in queue also voiced their discomfort and did their best to hold their ground and stay in queue, nudging off the other shoppers who were present to start their shopping early but were not queueing for the early redemption promotions.

During this uncomfortable turn of events, the staffs at the entrance themselves were not all well informed. One of them told us even after queueing outside, we would still need to continue queueing in another line again once inside. This was frustrating as 1 of the moms who had a queue ticket of being the 3rd in line, now had at least 30 people in front of her in the inner line!

The few of us then decided to approach another staff for assistance, and he then advised us with the coupon in our hand, we just needed to head to the relevant merchant booth for redemption and payment, and not need to queue at the inner queue as earlier advised. Well that was much more of a relief!

Anyways, I spent the full day there with a trolley and had to drop my stuff into the car twice as some products I had purchased were rather bulky, especially if it includes disposable diapers. Here were some tips I concluded from my last visit which I hope would be helpful should any reader intend to attend their own baby fair:

1.      Research the vendors present and the goods that will be marketed at the fair, especially those that are on promotion. After all, that’s the whole purpose of us attending a fair is to check and get multiple choices of everything you need under one roof at a discounted price right?

2.      To arrive by a half hour earlier before the event starts if you want to attempt to park close to the event venue. Arriving any time later than an hour after the event started.... I'd advise you to consider trying your luck again another day, that is if u can get out of the already building stagnant traffic jam then. I know this to be very true for baby expos held in Mid Valley at least.

3.      Bring your trolley/suitcase and family/friends to queue for popular items such as diapers, or milk bottle set purchases. The extra pax will also come in handy when taking care of your purchases at a corner whilst you queue to shop. In addition, there may be merchant booths that may prohibit you from entering if you have a trolley as their space may be to restricted to allow you to navigate your trolley inside.

4.      Get the map and store guide book at the entrance before entering. Some brands are poorly marketed and hidden in difficult corners.

5.      If you have your eyes already on a promoted product, zoom in to that store first. Great deals tend to sell out within the first half hour, if not within the first half day of the Expo.

6.      Remember bulky purchases such as strollers, cots, mattresses and car seats will usually be delivered so you don't have to lug it out of the hall.

7.      Try to bring more cash, wear a good pair of walking shoes and stay hydrated, especially if you are a pregnant mommy. Some people can feel overwhelmed and light-headed from the heat and presence of a huge crowd.

8.      Lastly, if you are pregnant, don’t leave your shopping to the last minute/ 3rd trimester. You’ll be more exhausted then and will have more difficulty moving around safely with that growing belly of yours. Try to do most of your shopping towards the end of your 2nd trimester months. 

All the stuff we bought at this baby fair

Hauck Miami 3 Stroller, post assembly, and delivered to our house 3 working days after the fair

The next TCE Baby Expo will be held on 26th – 28th August 2016 at SACC, Shah Alam, whilst Today’s Baby Expo would be held on 15th-18th September 2016 at Mid Valley Exhibition Centre. This excludes the other baby fairs that would be held at KLCC, the Mines, and other locations.

Personally, I plan to attend the TCE Baby Expo next week to finish up any final research and shopping. Here’s to hoping that I’ll be able to wrap things up by early afternoon, and good luck to all other moms and moms-to-be who will be attending the event then too!

Saturday 20 August 2016

How to Choose ... A Breast Pump

Like many other moms and moms-to-be who have taken to blogging their own experience and considerations after much head-splitting ideas and sleepless night decisions, I believe the final decisions boil down to the fact of how far one is willing to go in determining what is the best for yourself, your baby, your partner, your wallets, and how much control you would want to have over this transition period.

No doubt much helpful advice has been heaped on where well wishes would advise you to try and use as many hand-me-downs as possible, from clothes to strollers to cots; reason being that yes, time flies and the little bundle of joy will no doubt easily outgrow many things quickly. Hence, you would then need to burn another hole in your wallet for this additional growth spurt budget. No doubt if you are fine with hand-me-downs these would definitely be a time and financial lifesaver, but ultimately, it would still boil down to whether these hand-me-downs are available, and if they suit your needs and lifestyles.

Whether you are exclusively or partially feeding your baby breast milk, it is highly likely that you will use a breast pump somewhere along the way for one purpose or another. The frequency of its use depends upon your lifestyle and milk production as well as baby's appetite. A great breast pump can sometimes even make all of the difference between either a stressful breastfeeding experience and a lackluster supply, or a great one with a robust supply. Therefore, this is one baby-related item that needs thorough consideration.

The types of breast pumps in the market today can be divided into 3 main categories: manual pumps, electric pumps, and hospital grade pumps. There are also single user (self-usage) and multiple user breast pumps (used by hospitals and lactation consultants), but the focus of my article will be on single user breast pumps. Below are a list of factors that I had considered in my choice selection of shortlisted breast pump(s) purchase/ acquisition in anticipation of the arrival of my new bundle of joy:


Frequency of Usage

Manual:

Recommended for stay-at-home moms who rarely miss a feeding, or for occasional travel usage. A point to note that frequent usage could easily tire your hand(s) out and cause repetitive strain injuries.

Electric:

Recommended for moms who pump occasionally, i.e. at least once a day, and are away from their babies, such as working moms. 

Hospital Grade:

Recommended for those who plan to pump from home, or if you must dramatically increase your milk supply.


Budget

Manual:

Least expensive compared to all other types, as they are single-handed and self-operated. Promotional prices can range from RM30 - RM150.

Electric:

Prices vary for these motorised types, as they come in a variety of single pumps, double pumps, and even hands-free pumps, ranging between lightweight uses and midweight types. Prices can range between RM250 – around RM1000. Personally, a decent promotional double-pump set could cost around RM400 – RM600, whilst a single could be around RM200 – RM400.

Hospital Grade:

Electric power house types that can cost around RM800 – over RM1,000.


Portability & Weight

Manual:

Usually just a one-piece pumping unit or bulb/ syringe cylinder silicone variety that comes with a cap. Hence, it is very light, compact, and easily portable.

Electric:

Electric pumps are generally lightweight, compact, and can be fit into purses or briefcases. There are some single pump varieties where the motors are about the size of your palm.

Hospital Grade:

Electric power house types that would fit just over the palm of your hand and can weigh over 1kg, hence decently bulky and heavy by nature.


Suction Settings

Manual:

As these are manually operated by hand, the suction power, manner and speed are dependent on your hand movements and suction preference.

Electric:

All electric types have adjustable suction strength and method settings to mimic how a nursing baby suckles. All offer massage/stimulation modes to stimulate milk flow, expression modes for milk pumping and all-in-1 modes for milk pumping and release of engorgement. As these settings are dependent on the motor power, it would be best to choose a pump that offers an optional strong suction intensity should the need to relieve your sore/ full breasts arise.

Hospital Grade:

These types have sensitive controls that allow you to regulate suction rhythm, intensity, and pressure, and some even have a pumping action that's almost identical to a baby's natural sucking. These double pumps is said to reduce the amount of time required for milk pumping compared to the 2 other varieties above considerably.


Power Options

Manual:

Dependent on your own hand power.
Electric:

Usually comes with a charger and built in rechargeable batteries. Best to find those that also allow for USB port charging, and have a battery lifespan of at least an hour, as each pumping session can last between 10-30 minutes.

Hospital Grade:

Usually comes with a charger and built in rechargeable batteries, and optional cable for connection to a power source.


Durability

Not all pumps are created equal, and the silicone/ electronic parts and motors of each pump type will wear out eventually, depending on the components used, frequency of use and maintenance care provided. A point to note is that some silicone parts may wear out faster if subjected to frequent high heat sterilisation.


Comfort Level

This refers mainly to the pump cup/flange size and material, which will determine how much grip the cup would have covering the breast, and then coupled together with the suction intensity. Some cups/flange are made of pure plastic, part silicone and part plastic, or pure silicone. To determine which would best suit your comfort level, it is recommended that you request for a demonstration of how your chosen pump works.

The pumps suction literally pulls the nipple into the flange and hence, it is very important for the cups/flanges to fit properly. You do not want the nipple to constantly be vigorously rubbing against the plastic as it may cause abrasions and lead to bleeding, pain, and even infection. Most cups today however are universal in size and shape and cater to most breast and nipple types.


Motor Noise Level

Most pumps today are created to be as silent as possible (with a night light), to allow nursing moms to pump discreetly and at times, to avoid waking the baby. Best to test your preferred pump during a demonstration to determine how silent the motors are.


Cleaning Accessibility

Ease of daily cleaning after each pump could save you a lot of time and unnecessary stress. Manual pumps are a one-piece equipment and hence, the easiest and fastest to clean. When considering electric/ hospital grade pumps, all connecting parts where the milk will flow should be easily detachable for quick rinsing/ sterilisation, including the connecting ports, pipes and pump cup. Check with your supplier if they will also offer cleaning/ maintenance services for your pumps, as some parts could be hard to reach for cleaning.


Warranty & Customer Service

Most electric and hospital grade pumps come with at least a year’s warranty from the manufacturer or supplier. Consider an extended warranty to cover all parts if possible, and check customer feedback on the specific brand product before getting one. Better yet if their customer service can offer prompt technical support and postage of your required replacement parts instead of you having to drop by their outlet for consultation or replacement, as time and pump efficiency is no doubt vital to a working and nursing mom. A generous warranty typically is a sign of quality and durability.


Single or Double Pumping

If you'll be pumping at work or pumping often, getting a double hospital-grade or midweight, personal-use, electric pump will allow you to express both breasts at once, completing a pumping session in 10 to 15 minutes. Double-pumping is also said to increases levels of prolactin, the hormone responsible for milk production, especially if your little one is no longer directly latching onto you. Smaller pumps or a single pump may not be able to maintain your milk supply for the long-term and can sometimes become frustrating when on prolonged usage.


Hands-Free Pumps

Consider this option if your schedule is hectic and you like the idea of being able to do something else while pumping. The breast shields of these hands-free models (i.e. Freemie Cups) can attach the top clasps of most nursing bras. Point to note: Many regular breast pumps can also be made hands-free with a special pumping bra, or a DIY bra band for each breast. However, setup can be complicated, and the right-sized breast shields have to be used to prevent breast soreness.


Insulated Carrying Case

If you will be commuting or traveling frequently, consider a professional-looking pump "briefcase," sporty backpack, or hand bag that either features a removable cooling compartment, or allows you enough space to store an ice pack or two to keep your pumped breast milk for later.


LCD Display and Memory Indicator

Some breast pumps today offer an LCD panel and programmable memory that allow you to record your preferred pumping pattern, so you don't have to reset the pump each time you use it. Pretty nifty and time saving for a frequent nursing mom.


Used Breast Pumps

It isn’t recommended to use or borrow a used personal breast pump as it could put your little one’s health at risk since potential contaminants, viruses and bacteria can travel through the tubing and lodge in the pump's internal mechanism, which may or may not be be removable, replaceable, or allow for dismantling for sterilisation purposes. Exception lies with the hospital-grade rental pumps designed for many users and are built to last for years as long as each mother uses her own collection kit.

If you must buy a used pump or borrow one from a friend, wash/ sterilise all the parts you can with soap and water according to manufacturer's directions and replace the tubing. This advice also applies if you're planning to use the same breast pump you got now for later siblings.

Of the many breast pumps available in the market today, the ones I have frequently heard with decent/ positive reviews include the following:

Manual Pumps:
Medela Harmony, Philips Avent Manual Natural Comfort, Rosy Silicone Manual, Haakaa Silicone Manual, Autumz Silicone Manual

Single Electric

Medela Swing, Medela Freestyle, Autumz Bliss, Autumz Blossom, Lacte Solo Elite, Spectra M1, Tiny Touch Mini

Double Electric
Autumz Passion, Lacte Duet, Spectra M1, Medela Pump in Style Advanced, Spectra M1 (with additional tubing), Tiny Touch Mini (with additional tubing), Tiny Touch Intelligent

Hospital Grade Double Electric
Spectra S1, Spectra S2


One of the breast pump shops with multiple outlets that I have been to seek a demonstration of some of the breast pumps mentioned above would be PumpOn TheGo. The assistants I went to at the Kelana Jaya outlet were very helpful, and it was definitely an eye-opening experience and exposure for me. Another outlet i have heard of that offers these demonstrations are Moms House Babyshop. Both shop details can be found on Facebook and they do sell other mommy related products as well. 

I would definitely recommend going to any one of these shops when considering your purchase as they tend to run frequent promotions that can almost be comparable with the prices offered at baby fairs, less much of the time and hassle of attending one.

PS: Peekaboo Babyshop is an online shop that can also be found one Facebook and offers a massive variety of products on sale. I have found many interesting products for sale at a decent price and during promotions, it is definitely worth checking out.

On a personal note, my choice breast pump was the Tiny Touch Intelligent Double Electric pump, which i had purchased at the TCE Baby Expo in July 2016 after considering all factors above, and thanks to multiple crazy freebies offered when it was first launched, on top of the fact that the flange cups are 100% silicone and the product comes with a 1+1 year warranty period. 

Alright, that’s it for now. For any readers who actually trudged through my whole lengthy post, thank you for your patience and support, and I hope what I have compiled here will help you in your exciting journey of motherhood.

Monday 8 August 2016

Checklists for the New Arrival

Congratulations to the readers who are pregnant and expecting a baby at home soon!

Being a first-time mom, I have found much information on the necessities required to prepare for my firstborn from the internet, books, word-of-mouth to be rather overwhelming.

Gone were the days of our parents when choosing diapers was as easy as between either a cloth nappy, or pampers. Today, there are now at least 5 different brands of disposables, each with their own range and varieties to cater to various designs, comfort, conveniences and age groups. And this is before I even start on the strollers, car seats, cots, baby toiletries, stretch mark creams, breast pumps, etc. available on the market!

Suffice to say, attending a baby fair or warehouse sale mentally ill-prepared in hopes of checking out the brands and products available as well as the competitive market price range will be a recipe for disaster, especially if you happen to be attending a huge crowd event such as the TCE Baby Expo and then come across a rather pushy salesperson.

Honestly, i can’t really review which brand is better over the other just yet as I have yet to try them out, nor would I know my baby’s future preferences/ sensitivities. What I can share here is my checklists of items required (and maybe IMO not so required) in preparation of the new arrival, whilst delivering at the hospital, a shortlist of possible brands to consider, and factors that can be considered in your own preferred selection. These will be addressed in my next post update.

The items highlighted below should be considered in the following manner:
a)    In pink = For babies 6-9 months old
b)    In blue = For babies 9 months old and above
c)   With a * = Not a necessity and can be considered depending on the circumstances and preferences of the parents

Checklist for Newborn (0-6 months) till age 1

ITEMS
QTY

ITEMS
QTY
SLEEPING

CLOTHING (FOR BABY)

Baby Cot
1


Hat/ Beanie
2

Pillow & Bolster
1


Mittens
6

Pillow & Bolster Cover
2


Socks
6

Mattress
1


Shoes
6

Bed Sheet
2


Day Wear
5

Comforter/ Quilt/ Blanket
1


Night Wear
5

Diaper Stacker
1


Romper
6

Changing Table/Mat
1


Baby Bips
>3

Waterproof Bed Mat
1


Swaddle
1-2

Mosquito Net & Stand
1


Dresser
>1

Spring Cot
1


Napkins/ Handkerchief
5

Spring Cot Net
2





Playpen + Mat
1











TRAVELING

BREASTFEEDING

Infant Car Seat*
1


Breast Pump
1

Infant Carrier*
1


Breast Pad (Cloth)
2

Baby/Toddler Car Seat
1


Breast Pad (Disposable)
50

Baby Stroller
1


Contact Nipple Shield*
-

Travel Support Pillow
1


Nipple Cream
1

Travel Blanket
1


Hot/Cold Pack
1

Nappy Bag
1


Feeding Pillow*
1

Feeding Set
1


Milk Storage Bottles
5-10

Car Window Shade
1


Milk Storage Bags
50

Baby-on-board Sticker
1


Milk Cooling Travel Bag
1-2

Travel Changing Mat
1


Ice Pack for Bag
1-2

Car Back Seat Organiser*
1


Milk Bottle Training Handle
1-2

Portable Cutlery Set
1


Bottle Tong*
1

Toothbrush & toothpaste
1





Teething Set
1











EVERYDAY

BABY CARE/ BATHING

Baby Wipes
>3


Baby Shampoo
1-2

Diaper (Disposable) - NB size to buy max 2. Buy more S sizes
>2 bags


Baby Bath
1-2

Diaper (Cloth)
>6


Bath & Face Towel
2

Nappy Liner
>2


Bath Sponge*
2

Cotton Wool/Balls
>2


Baby Lotion
1-2

Bottle Steriliser
1


Baby/ Talc-free Powder*
1-2

Bottle/ Food Warmer
1


Bath Tub
1

Bottle Brush
1


Bath Mat (non-slip)
1

Feeding Bottle
>4


Nose Cleaner*
1

Nappy Rash Cream
1


Nail Clipper/ Scissors
1

Bottle Teats (Slow – Fast)
>2


Hair Brush/ Comb
1

Detergent
1-2


Thermometer
1

Bottle Liquid Cleaner
1-2


Fever Cool Plaster
>1

Milk Powder Container + Formula Milk*
1


Bath Stool
1

High Chair
1


Bath Stand/ Hanger
1

Cutlery Set
1-3


Powder Puff Case*
1







PLAYING

OPTIONAL

Baby Rattle
>1


Cot Night Light*
1

Play Gym
1


Dustbin
1-2

Crib Toys
3-5


Pacifiers*
1-2

Stroller Toys
3-5


Bottle Drying Rack*
1

Bean Pillow
1-2


Baby monitoring device*
1

Baby Chair
1

CONFINEMENT

Potty Chair
1


Minyak Angin/ Urut
1

Musical Mobile
1


Maternity Pad
2 bags

Toy Box (s)
>1


Herbal Foot & Bath Soaks
 1 set

High Chair Toys
>2





Messy Mat
1-2

CLOTHING (FOR MOM)

Cuddly Toys
>2


Nursing Bra
>2

Activity Toys
>2


Bra Extenders
1-3

Baby Books
>2


Sleep Support Pillow*/ Bolster
1-2

Walker
1


Pregnancy Support Belt*
1-2

Infant Jumper
1


Maternity Clothes
>3

Baby Gate
2


Stretch Mark Cream
1









  Hospital Checklist

ITEMS

ITEMS
FOR MOM

FOR BABY

Hospital Wear


Nappy Bag

Nightwear


Diapers

Slippers


Wet Wipes

Maternity Pads


Baby Wash

Nursing Bras


Blanket

Breast Pads (Disposable)


Towel

Underwear


Romper (night wear)

Toiletries


Hat/ Beanie

Tissue


Socks

Hair Brush & Hair Dryer


Mittens

Toothbrush & Toothpaste


Swaddle

Relaxation Music/ Massage Oil*


Infant Carrier*

Support Pillow*


Infant Car Seat*

Heat Pack*


Travel Support Pillow*

Water Bottle*


Cotton Swabs/Balls

Loose clothes (after birth)




Medical Card

FOR SUPPORT PERSON

Blood Group Card


Video Camera & Charger

Towel


HP & Charger

Socks 


Snacks






PS: My list has excluded the bengkung and barut which I believe most Muslim moms may consider in their list.